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How to approach a girl ?

How to approach a girl ?

Like every day, you see this delightful girl on the way to college or in the subway and as usual, and let her go without doing anything else but stare at her like a vulture and took great care that she does not notice. Congrats, you did it very well ! But something tells me you want a little more than the vision of its beautiful forms.

You recognize yourself in this description? I'll give you a few tips to stop letting your life slip through your fingers and allow you, if you have the motivation, to reach more easily what you want.


1. Stop postponing everything !

You don't worry for not talking to a girl because you're almost certain you'll get a second chance? Here is the first mistake, this vision will make you all the time pushing the crucial moment of the meeting and believe me, there will be a day when you will not see her anymore. So it's really important to set yourself an objective.
If you see this girl regularly, you say that the next time you cross her, you go talk to her.


2. Look normal.

The girl you covet is certainly far from being ugly, so there are chances that this girl gets "arponed" several times a day by men without a lot of tact. Therefore, you will have to set yourself apart from the mass.

First, don't be naive, the object of your lust look first at your physique and your style. So, you can be the funniest person in the world and the most interesting, if you have as much style as an old carpet, you already lost.

Get interested in fashion and buying clothes that highlight yourself.


3. Do not play a role.

Be yourself is the key word. You must always think that the girl to whom you plan to speak, will be at least as much embarassed as you. So, accept to be scared, it is quite natural and human.

When it comes to the time to approach her, it's necessary that you seem the most confident possible. A girl will never go out with a slacker.

So yes the eternal question: What will I tell her ?

There is no universal answer to this question, it depends of the moment. If you noticed something on her that marks you, use it to start the discussion (eg a ring you like a necklace, shoes).

If nothing that she wears inspires you, just tell her that she is cute and that you would like to know her. The telephone number asking must be done only if you feel a good vibe from her.

Above all, do not look serious, the seduction must remain something fun. It's the only way to ensure that in the case of a failure, you don't got annihilated. Smile throughout, make her laugh, show her that you're a life lover who doesn't try to get a girl at any cost. If you feel she is not interested, never mind, you helped her to boost her ego, it will be your good deed for the day :-)

A rejection will always bring you a step closer to success and no one ever died of it. If, after a rejection,  you see her again, you'll quickly notice that she will be as much embarrassed as you, so do not lower your eyes, you had the courage to dare and it is already very good. As we say, practice makes perfect.


4. Be clear about your intentions

Do not expect to have a positive result if you talk about weather. You must be fresh and funny while making her understand that you do not want to play cards with her. It is very important that you tell her a compliment in order that she understands that you are interested. Don't do it in excess. If you do too much, you will give her a superiority position and you can well imagine that a girl isn't looking for someone less cool than her.


Always think that it's you who are likely to enchant her life, never show an emotional lack. Your life is busy and you're going to integrate your sweetheart in, not vice versa. A person in need can't manage anything good. You are the "price" and not the reverse.

Here's some basic tips to remember. Many other things can be said about the subject and there are specialist sites for that.

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